Thats precisely why she does what she does. Illinois is the first state by law to mandate Erins Law. I pull out my sixth grade DARE card and tell lawmakers I knew the eight ways to say "no" to drugs and have never tried even a cigarette and I am nearly 30 years old. Instead I am still running from Brian. She started by pulling out that little pink diary. My sister and I both left with stuffed animals and feeling like our secret was now in good hands. He got us quiet and continued to get away with it. 4 mos. Alaska Dispatch: Silence is a powerful way in which sexual abuse is kept secret and is perpetuated. Erin Merryn (Author) Format: Kindle Edition See all formats and editions Kindle $12.99 Read with Our Free App Paperback $16.10 35 Used from $2.70 5 New from $12.50 Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. Merryn travels the country advocating for children who are victims of sexual assault. Merryn didn't tell anyone until she was 13 and she suspected her sister was also being abused. Erin has appeared in People Magazine, Glamour Magazine, Time Magazine, The New York Times, Time Magazine, New York Post, The London Times, USA Today, Chicago Tribune, Daily Herald, among others. The Church Sex Abuse Scandals Around the World, Child-Abuse Case Reveals Vietnam's Lax Social Services, (Read why most child abuse goes unreported). I finally got, after seven months, what I had been looking for: an apology. How and when did you do it first? COLUMBUS, Ohio The Ohio Senate is considering a bill to teach elementary, middle and high school students how to protect themselves from sexual predators. Her older cousin sexually abused her from 11-13 years old. Forgiving him allowed me to move forward with my life and decide to no longer let this thing be something I should be ashamed of, no longer allowing it to be a negative in my life, but letting it be a positive.. We live in a society that doesn't want to even address this issue. Well, something shocking happened. Our guest speaker for the Luncheon will now be Erin Merryn, childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist, and the force behind Erin . After Bailey's passing, she adopted a kitten named Carrot. Silence Broken and Stigmas Shattered -- Help for Incest Survivors Is Here Fans of Erin Merryn's heart-wrenching debut memoir Stolen Innocence were left wondering at the end what would become of an emotionally fragile Erin after her confrontation with the reality of being a child of incest and molestation. [3], She graduated from Schaumburg High School in 2004[4] and earned a Bachelor of Social Work from Western Illinois University in 2008. Merryn realized he had been molesting her sister too. Merryn saidif parents are not comfortable, the bill allows parents toopt their kids out of the education. COURIER/JOELLYN CURRY She lives in Chicago with her husband and two daughters. Erin Merryn's memoir is about how her life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted."I thought when the abuse stopped I could move on with my life. "The new bill brings a mandate," Merryn said, "mandating that all (Illinois) schools--pre-school through 12th grade--must begin next fall teaching sexual-abuse prevention education in the schools." I also give lots of insight and resources to parents in my third book An Unimaginable Act on warning sings to look for like bed wetting, wearing extra layers of clothes, avoiding a certain person, not wanting to be around them when they had no problem before, academic changes in school, depression, withdrawal, nightmares, aggression; acting out sexually, she said. The Children's Advocacy Center of Northwest Cook County, Ill. (there are 900 of these centers across America in every state), helped give me the courage in my forensic interview after my sister and I broke our silence to tell what had happened. I remember walking out into the parking lot and feeling this sense of relief.Seven months later I would return back for the first time since my interview to begin a group with other girls who were survivors in January 1999. I was told repeatedly by my cousin that I had no proof, that he would deny it, that no one would believe me. Please join Erin Merryn in her crusade to protect children from sexual abuse and donate to help her with her travel expenses today! So far, her story has inspired many kids to speak up about abuse, and that has led to more predators put behind bars. He cornered her in basements, bathrooms and bedrooms, always reminding her that she shouldn't bother telling anyone because no one would believe her. Young children tend to hear a lot of messages about avoiding interactions with people they don't know, when in reality they are far more likely to face harm from a relative or family friend. Its word for word my diary from the ages of 10 until my senior year of high school. Behind those numbers are the faces of innocent children whose childhoods were shattered by actions of evil and sickness. Merryn is a national spokesperson for the National Children's Alliance, becoming the first survivor of child sexual abuse that went through a Children's Advocacy Center to speak on national television about her experience.[1]. The abuse continued and Erin struggled with the secret that hung over her, a secret that eventually destroyed a family and took Erin's innocence. In the end, he was given seven years of probation, 1,000 hours of community service, he attended a two-year sex offender program, and couldnt come within 100 feet of Erin or her sister. She also pointed out the real loss of innocence for a child is when they are sexually abused and nothing is done about it. In Living for Today, readers find that Erin cultivated the strength to face her abuser . Two of those children were my sister and I. The same year I was born in 1985 was the first year the development of the first CAC in America was born in Alabama. [3] According to her personal account, she told her parents about the latter after her sister confided that she had also been abused by the same relative. will then mail or hand the parents or responsible adult family member the Megans Law information. In 2008, Erin decided to step up her efforts to protect children nationwide and started writing state legislators to ask them to pass laws requiring schools to better educate children, school employees and parents how to prevent and stop child sexual abuse. Alaska Dispatch: You were preyed upon not once, but twice (two different abusers during different stages of childhood). 2022 Anchorage Daily News. Erin's Law is the first US child sexual abuse prevention education law requiring children be educated in schools. I had only ever been told no one (would) believe me, I feared ruining our large extended family when they learned a family member (teenage cousin) was molesting my sister and I. Sixteen years ago, on March 29, 1998, my sister broke her silence to me. I can remember that as if it happened yesterday. And it was at her house the very first overnight that I woke up to her uncle who lived in the home sexually abusing me," said Merryn. Again, she started having trouble in school, becoming distant and withdrawn. A place I went to with my eleven year old sister and mother. He told me, "Your goal is to convince everyone else." House Bill 105 overwhelminglypassed the Ohio Housea year ago. The path to justice for survivors of sexual assault is not an easy road. Throughout her school years, Erin Merryn of Schaumburg, Ill., received plenty of lessons in the dangers her elders thought she could encounter during her childhood. But instead of telling everyone to vote against it, she told everyone to vote in support of this bill. Here's How We Amplify It | National Children's Alliance", "Erin Merryn Fights for Law to Help Child Sexual Assault Victims", "Erin's Law: When the Abuser Is No Stranger", "State Senate Passes Erin Merryn's Law Aimed at Child Sex Abuse Prevention", "Survivor Recalls Alleged Incest in Book", "Child Sexual Abuse Survivor Gets Law Passed", https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Erin_Merryn&oldid=1132623568, Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike License 3.0, This page was last edited on 9 January 2023, at 19:15. Her name is Erin Merryn and she is the founder of Erins Law. I came from a good home, two parents, good schools, safe neighborhood, etc. How I wondered am I suppose to tell this stranger my pain when I am too ashamed to even talk in detail with my parents about it. Around the time we were getting ready to move away, my friend had a birthday party. Erin said he would occasionally downplay what he did, but he never denied it. Maryland is the latest state, joining the crusade last month. I will not stop until children in all 50 states are protected from sexual abuse.". High near 60F. I got five sentences to my five pages, but he responded and it opened a door of communication, she said. Putting the lives of children in danger and possibly taking their innocence is worth it? Known For. When I look at you, I see nothing but scum. A voice that flies across America and speaks at many of these CAC's that exist taking people back to my experience at the CAC and this time sharing all the details because I no longer carry the shame but instead a voice bringing awareness to these incredible centers that give children a new start on life and a path toward healing. "(It) brings me back to remembering being six-years-old being abused. But where were the eight ways on how to "get away and tell today?" Erin Merryn (born February 2, 1985) is the author of Stolen Innocence, Living for Today, and An Unimaginable Act. Merryn was also the owner of the viral Instagram cat, Bailey, until he died in December 2018. Those were just the number of children who broke their silence that year. The areas covered by your swimsuit are not for anyone to be touching, unless mommy and daddy are helping you with a bath. It ended only after a chance conversation between Merryn and one of her sisters, who blurted out one day that their cousin Brian was "gross." Erin Merryn (Author) 139 ratings Kindle Edition $17.99 Read with Our Free App Paperback $16.56 16 Used from $11.22 5 New from $45.35 Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. My abuse first happened at weeks shy of my seventh birthday by a neighbor it went on until age 8 and a half. Erin Merryn born February 2 1985 is the author of Stolen Innocence Living for Today An Unimaginable Act Bailey No Ordinary Cat and The Diary of a Cat. The brilliant minds behind putting in place a center that had a home away from home feeling to give children a sense of security and comfort.At thirteen was the age I walked through the CAC. According to the Office of the Monmouth County Prosecutors website, the only time that Megans Law information will be released to parents or families of students is if the school receives a Tier III high risk notice concerning an offender living within a 1,000-foot radius of their location. Erins Law soon caught on nationwide. It was the first time she supported a school mandate, and she retired later that year. A judge did sentenced her cousin to probation and counseling. Merryn says starting when she was six, she was sexually abused by a neighbor, then at 11 by an older cousin. Merryn travels the country bearing witness to what happened to her in hopes of encouraging states to enact laws requiring sexual abuse education in schools. In 2010, Merryn helped create Erin's Law, which was the first law to be passed in the U.S. that required children to be taught sexual abuse prevention in school. Erins Law has now going international with judge in Kerala India requiring Erins Law in the 2023-2024 school year. The only difference is now I am running from him in my dreams" (Merryn 49). As I describe in my books, that center was the foundation of my healing. Alaska Dispatch: You have since spoken up in a big way. At a family gathering at her grandparents' lake house, she awoke in the middle of the night to find her cousin "Brian" (again, not his real name), then 13, lying next to her with his hands down her underwear. Erin Elizabeth had cheerful holidays turned into a fight to protect herself from evil where she often lost. Erin, a Chicago-area native, first introduced the legislation in Illinois, and the bill was given her namesake. Alaska Dispatch: When you decided to confront and start corresponding with your cousin, how did it go at first? She was taught how to ride out a tornado, instructed in the eight steps for turning down illegal drugs, and told how to react to a friendly stranger who might try to abduct her. Visiting Alaska this week, Erin Merryn is a long way from home, and even farther from the torturous past she endured as a sexually abused child. "I didn't understand what was going on," she says. The only message I got as a child came from my abusers and that was to stay silent or else, she said. She knew exactly what she was doing by asking simple questions on my life, friends, what I did for fun, and my family. Erin's Law, which debuted in Illinois, is now in 37 states and mandates that public schools teach age-appropriate sex abuse prevention to grades as young as pre-K. Merryn said those lessons on . You didn't just tell one person. She has made it her mission in life to get this legislation passed in all 50 states. The two continued to correspond for seven months. Merryn: This wasn't bad luck. Unfortunately for many survivors they never see their perpetrators held accountable. I always feared he would come back. Anyone who has felt victimized, ashamed, isolated, and silenced by their abusers will receive a road-map in the book for self-discovery, forgiveness, and empowerment to overcome trauma and live fully and fearlessly for today. Check out pictures, bibliography, and biography of Erin Merryn In 2013 Governor Quinn signed Erins Law mandating child sexual abuse education in all Illinois public schools. She is an activist against child sexual abuse. Read more about Erins Law at www.erinslaw.org, or about Erin herself at www.erinmerryn.net. Erins ongoing abuse with her friends uncle was over. I wanted to know why, and when I asked if he was abused, he denied it and said he abused me out of curiosity and an urge of sexuality. She is an activist against child sexual abuse. Innocence lost. 35. But nobody asked those important questions. Erin Merryn is the author of three books about surviving incest, including "Living for Today." She also speaks nationally on the subject. She was also afraid she would lose her innocence. Did you have a helper or helpers in your life? Hes grown into quite the little man and doesnt want me near the bathroom when he showers or gets dressed and I respect that. Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist Erin Merryn is the founder and president of Erin's Law. Eleven states have passed the legislation. In 2014 People magazine named her one of fifteen women changing the world along with Oprah and Hillary Clinton. 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Almost all states that have passed it are using the program, while some states are deciding how their schools will implement It into the curriculum.. I remember immediately after answering the interviewer I said "That's the reason I didn't tell before, I kept it to myself because I thought no one would believe me." Thinking she had finally escaped the endless sexual abuse, Merryn, the keynote speaker at the Sept. 26 luncheon, was once again sexually abused by a cousin beginning at the age of 11 at a family home in Lake Geneva. Meetings between the two families were called to sort out the problem, to no avail. She is the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety on the prevention of child sexual ab From the time my son Jack was around 3, I began having the private parts talk with him. See her personal website at ErinMerryn.net. As a result, she has been interviewed by many major news organizations and TV programs beginning in 2006, on Good Morning America, Oprah, CNN, Today Show, Fox, Katie Couric, Nightline, TLC, OWN, MSNBC, People Magazine, Time Magazine, Glamour Magazine, USA Today, London Times, New York Times, Chicago Tribune, and dozens more local media. Erin Merryn is a 21-year-old college sophomore who wrote a book, "Stolen Innocence: Memoir," about her struggles after she claims she was molested by her first cousin. We live in a society that keeps it hushed and (there is) so much taboo around it; people are afraid to speak up and say this happened to them. So before CAC's a child brought to a police station could be filled with anxiety and fear that they are in trouble. However, during the hearing Tuesday,Ohio State Sen. Sandra OBrien, R-Ashtabula, told Merryn that whileshe was sorry about what happened to her,there will always be evil in the world.. Sponsored by Rep. Geran Tarr, D-Anchorage, HB 233 puts Alaska among the states considering "Erin's Law" in 2014. The legislation, "Erin Merryn's Law," (S.6182 Klein/ A.8993 Dinowitz), would require schools to make a change to their . Do you believe one word is more appropriate than the other? Named by PEOPLE Magazine a HEROES Among us and one of fifteen women changing the world. Here's how to protect your kids from online predators. More than 90 percent of children who are sexually abused know their attacker, Bucco said with conviction. Childhood sexual abuse survivor turned author, speaker, child advocate and activist Erin Merryn is the founder and president of Erin's Law. Merryn now. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. My mom was a mess, that day she probably cried for 10 straight hours, looking at my dad saying, we missed all the red flags, her grades, she was depressed, Erin recalled. Vermont State Board of Education has required it in schools since 2009. Eleven-year-old Erin Merryn's life was transformed on the night she was sexually abused by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. He'd conditioned and kept me silent for two years, so he knew he could get away with that behavior, even with so many people around. Senator Gillibrand on the federal version of Erin's Law to give federal funding to the law, and in December 2015 President Obama signed the federal version of Erin's Law under the Every Student Succeeds Act. However, Merryn said this time the perpetrator was an older cousin, someone she had viewed as a brother figure. For so many years I stayed angry and bitter towards him. She is an activist against child sexual abuse as well as the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety in order to prevent child sexual abuse. Caught you off guard? She is at war against this silent evil that is lurking in the shadows and is devoted to opening the eyes of the public to the tens of thousands of children who are being abused right now silently in our own communities and backyards without our knowledge. Erin Elizabeth heard over the years from 11-13 "Nobody will believe you, you have no proof, you will destroy our large extended family, this is our secret don't tell anyone." It turned out cousin Brian was abusing Merryns little sister, too. She didn't want to stop visiting her friend but tried to find times when Richard wasn't around. "I just stared at the ceiling waiting for it to end." "Alabama needs this law because just like everywhere else in America . JANESVILLE, Wis. (WMTV) - Illinois woman Erin Merryn spoke in Wisconsin Wednesday, pushing the state to pass the law in her namesake that aims to protect children and prevent child sexual abuse. She came to me after I had been abused for two years and told me words I never expected to hear, that she too was being abused by the same family member. Every other headline horrifies the public with another predator taking not just advantage of a child but everything from a child. 7Erin Merryn is a Woman of the Year because"She's taken her personal crusade and turned it into a public one. We need to start teaching kids this, she said. Merryn: I didn't expect a response back from my cousin because my letter was very harsh filled with so much anger and rage. I wouldn't have quit my job four years ago as a master's level counselor to go after this had I not been lead by the Lord. As an adult, she's reclaimed the voice her abusers tried to silence. Sexually abused and raped from age 6-8 by an adult neighbor Erin was threatened to stay silent by her abuser. She began to think about all the other prevention classes and drills she learned in school: how to say no to drugs, what to do in case of a fire, what to do in case of a tornado, how to never answer the door if parents arent home. As the abuse continued, and as she was forced to see her abuser over and over again in social situations, she struggled with self-doubt, panic attacks, nightmares and the weight of whether or not to tell her . That's where, 14 years ago, a then-13-year-old Erin Merryn first . Unthinkable acts. It happened again after we moved away, when a cousin started abusing me in my sleep when I was 11 years old. The two families have ceased having contact. A survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Erin has worked diligently to lobby every state to pass Erin's Law, beginning with her home state of Illinois in 2009. (Slaven Vlasic/Getty Images) Erin Merryn is a powerful speaker and advocate for countless, faceless children and adults in our country who have similarly suffered sexual abuse. In 2010, Merryn began a crusade to get Erin's Law passed across America. Eventually, her parents and sisters moved to another town, closer to family. Child molestation is an epidemic that needs to end now. I often say victims are those who are killed by their attackers. A safe touch could be a high five or hug and an unsafe touch is someone touching you in the areas covered by your swimsuit, or your private parts, Merryn said. Winds NW at 5 to 10 mph. Erin Merryn testified Tuesday in an Ohio Senate committee about 'Erin's Law.' "He told me, just like in the past by this other perpetrator, 'Erin, this is our . In her diary Erin Merryn reveals how her life was transformed one night when, as an eleven-year-old, she was sexually abused in her grandparents condo by her cousin, someone she loved and trusted. My sister and I were the only girls that he was around all the time. Unfortunately, children who are abused once are at even higher risk of being abused again by someone else because they are vulnerable and easy to prey on. How do we lessen the control these pressures have on ourselves, our loved ones? When she is traveling to state capitols or speaking engagements she is entertaining her 270,000Instagram followers that follow her famous cat. Merryn travels the country advocating for children who are victims of sexual assault. My mission, through this legislation, is to educate children on what I never learned. She now runs Carrot's Instagram and shares pictures of Carrot sharing a similar demeanor of her previously owned cat, Bailey. They dont warn us about our own family, they dont teach us that in school, her age 12 entry stated. Jill Burke is a former writer and columnist for Alaska Dispatch News. When Merryn eventually confided in Ashley about what had happened, her friend was not surprised; in fact, the scene was depressingly familiar to her. Do you know if it was as healing for him as it was for you? The place Erin reclaimed her voice and began her journey to healing. Erin Merryn speaks with enthusiasm, rattling off the list of trips around the globe, the hours of research and meetings promoting her cause. How do you identify? The law was passed in a number of states,[7] with New York becoming the 37th in 2019. She is an activist against child sexual abuse as well as the founder of Erin's Law, which requires public schools to teach children personal body safety in order to prevent child sexual abuse. Alaska Dispatch: Would something like what you are proposing -- Erin's Law -- have helped you? It would be many more years until that voice would become the strong, confident woman that I have become. These days hes almost 9 and I dont really tag along to play dates anymore, but every time I drop him off, I tell him, if you have to use the bathroom, lock the door and have privacy. I found myself locked in bedrooms, basements, bathrooms, a car, garage and repeatedly assaulted by my cousin.. Erin first gained public attention for this cause when she self-published her first book while still a senior in high school in Schaumburg IL, entitled: Stolen Innocence: Triumphing Over a Childhood Broken by Abuse: A Memoir. Nightmares. I guess what I was trying to ask is, why do you think your abusers chose you instead of some other girl as a target? On Thursday, Quinn signed "Erin's Law" at the Children's Advocacy Center of North and Northwest Cook County in Hoffman Estates. He was the father of my best friend. ALBANY, N.Y. - The Independent Democratic Conference was joined today by Assemblyman Jeff Dinowitz, (D-Bronx), and nationally recognized anti-abuse advocate and survivor Erin Merryn to hail the passage of important legislation to stamp out child sexual abuse in New York. Her courage breaking her silence allowed me to take a stand for both of us and be brave and tell her we can't keep this a secret, that we have to tell our parents. Her testimony was met with a standing ovation. The fact that a motel is not telling families that sex offenders are living there should be a crime, Merryn said. But at age 11, Merryn's second nightmare began. Teaching kids the differences between safe and unsafe touch, safe and unsafe secrets, how to report this to a safe adult and to keep reporting it if your abuse does not end, said Merryn. Erin said all she ever learnedin school was aboutstranger danger. 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